http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Ex_husband_now_my_slave/
I for one will contact Yahoo about this. This is one of their most popular groups. Personally, I find it offensive...
Any ideas out there?
This is very sad indeed.
MYSONSDAD, I posted this on a number of sites. Perhaps we can do something.
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I sent Glenn Sacks a link to the web site. His response:
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Thanks--I've talked about it on the radio before.
Best Wishes,
Glenn Sacks
//www.HisSide.com
//www.GlennSacks.com
As a NCP mom who pays supprt "on time every time" I find it deeply offensive not only because of the topic but because others of my gender are making such a mockery out of child support and blantantly saying they are making "financial slaves" out of thier former partners.
I'm in too!
Just this morning I "was all dressed up with no place to go" and the thought crossed my mind that fathers are simply sentenced to some sorta work release program.
I was contemplating emailing the DA office, the sherriff dept, and all the judges requesting they define 'a process' to stand ready to IMMEDIATELY enforce criminal custody interference statues for the upcoming holiday season ... copying/pasting this crock will nicely compliment my primary request.
Thanks MSD...... the yahoo crock folows :
A serious and supportive discussion forum about divorced or legally separated women to discuss how they have used divorce, child support, alimony and the courts to make their ex-husbands their financial slaves. Also how ex-wives have used the psychology of divorce to turn their ex-husbands into servants and slaves for their own amusement and enrichment. A forum for women to share their success stories in humiliating and bankrupting ex-husbands--and then moving on, with their ex's money, to better relationships with more attractive men. Humiliation. Revenge. Female power. Female financial domination. No doubt about it: For many women, divorce can be the road to the easy life--and wealth and riches. And the beauty of it all is that it's all done at the expense of your ex, who now is your financial slave. This list is about placing your ex in psychological and financial slavery. Discuss the tactics--and laugh about it--here.
This is one of Yahoo's most popular groups, and needs some new moderators.
Damn I hate when this happens. lol :-)
A response to my post about the group
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Posted By: AlmostHeaven
Date: Monday, 13 December 2004
That site is run by an NCP. The original site description spoke of keeping your ex in financial "bondage". It had an over-emphasis on bondage and slavery...get it? And whomever set it up originally had long since vanished.
Eventually, Yahoo removed the original group as the owner had left it sit. So an NCP who was posting on the original board, re-set it up to pull people into a fight.
He's changed the description around a bit to remove the sexual connotation and make it sound more like a greedy ex-wife, just to lull in greedy ex-wives so that NCPs there can have the fight they're craving.
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From my old email archives...
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----HACKal Message----- From: John J. Xenakis
Sent: Friday, November 01, 2002
To: Recipient list suppressed Subject: [Ex_husband_is_now_my_slave] We're back!
Hi!
Our all-time favorite online forum, Ex_husband_is_now_my_slave, was wiped off the face of the earth on October 18, apparently by some yahoo from Yahoo.
So I'm starting it up again!! Join in the fun, and tell all your friends!!
Just click on the link below to join:
[email protected] John
Hope they take the time to reword their goals on the home page.
"Children learn what they live"
Wouldn't it be nice to be able to send this to a bunch of judges to see how their lovley awards end up and how they are ACTUALLY used.
LMAO yea as if they give a dam
**These are my opinions, they are not legal advice**
...to thank you for the flowers you sent msme (she is my Mom, ya know). It really made her day.
that thought crossed my mind....
It's still around? I took a looksee several years ago, and felt embarassed to be there. Sort of like sneaking a peek at the magazines in the back of the liquor store, if you know what I mean...
Well it was a good idea at the time, I'm sure. Maybe it still is a good idea. Most normal people would be disgusted just by reading their "mission statement".
As for pulling in ex wives for a fight, remember this, "never mud wrestle with a pig. You'll end up dirty, and the pig will enjoy it".
I am happy it made her day :-)
When I see efforts such as your moms in helping us fathers it gives me hope.
Hope for the future that my son will not have to go through what I have. I am very angry at a system which only allows me to see my son every other weekend and forces me to pay. I am required to support a system which has ripped my son from my life.
I am a NCP dad who's eX keeps his visitations to the bare minimum. The courts will not even entertain a change in visitation because there must be a "change in circumstances". And the change in circumstances" must occur between the CP and the child. Having a child spend more than just every other weekend is not a valid reason to change visitation.
I visit my son at daycare to be able to spend more time with him.
I am sick, just plain sick how the government treats a good father who wants to be with his son more.
Having moms such as msme involved in changing the system gives me hope for the future. Perhaps in the near future the laws will condone the use of children as pawns.
The reason my son is being raised in a single mom home is because the court system allows moms to exclude fathers from the picture. Fathers in terms of being a parent, not fathers money part.
Dead beat dads is not the problem. Dead Bolt moms are.
Sorry about the tangent. Give your mom a big hug. This world needs more moms like yours and mine. :-)