Who knows why, she appears to be a crank who believes that parental alienation is a myth and that SPARC is haven for child abusers. She also appears to think SPARC is a "marketing service". (??)
When we declined to engage and argue with her, this is what she sent us:
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Bonnie Russell wrote:
> Oh not to worry, I never argue with the seriously deluded. But I do laugh.
> In fact, I've sent copies of your website and responses around, because
> everyone I know enjoys a good laugh.
>
> Tis the season to be jolly
> Fa la la la la la la la la
> Report those perps so kids won't be sorry
> Fa la la la la la la la la
> Gone be now all child abusers
> Fa la la la la la la la la
> Rid the world of these scummy losers
> Fa la la la la la la la LA!
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Feel free to contact her if you like, but don't be surprised if she has a meltdown and attacks you. After all, if you have anything to do with fathers, you MUST be a batterer and a child abuser.
Bonnie Russell
[email protected]
But consider it a compliment when the vitriol that you draw is from wackos.
OMG, not another one.....
People like her are very alone and with the holidays coming, it might be her only way to get thru it, mentally, did I say mentally? Sad very sad, nothing better to do with her time, no family to love her, so alone and looking for attention.....hoping someone will notice her.
And everything male is abusive. Oh, what I could write.
"Children learn what they live"
.....her parents divorced, her mother had custody of her, PAS'd the he!! outta her and she now considers all fathers pariahs. Goes to show the extremes that can happen when a child has no father in his/her life......
That is the impression I got too. But I also get the feeling, she has no one, so she is stirring up some sh!t....Needs attention and this is her only way to get it. Probably find some other sites to attack.
But we get it.
Shame we don't have an on board psychiatrist...
"Children learn what they live"
If she posted some crap and we missed it. Would love to see what it was.
You would think she would have noticed all the second wives here, defending their men. All the women who ALREADY KNOW WHAT GOOD FATHERS ARE ALL ABOUT!
"Children learn what they live"
I'm half tempted to write her, but why give attention to someone so obviously deluded? Not only are there second wives here, but how bout folks like me and Backwardsbike---NCP moms? Bet she'd think we are a planted fairy tale. Either that, or she'd go with the myth that all mothers that don't have their children 90% of the time are bad mothers who lost their children because they deserved it.
My bet is that she is a CP mom who drummed up fake charges of abuse against her ex. The problem with screwballs is eventually they start believing and living their own lies.
what a nut, goes to show WHAT happens when a child does not have their father in their life. She probably came from a divorced family where mom PAS'd her and limited or made sure dad had no contact.
Crazy woman I am a mom, and a second wife, my dh loves his boys and would do anything for him, she has no clue how many stepmoms, cp and loving dads their are here and only care about their kids well being
Whois search shows that her website http://www.familylawcourts.com is registered to "Say no more" ( I wish that she would )
"Privacy is for every 1 ... Anonymous" and etc...
Why Hide if your a$$ is showing?
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FatherTime thinks... that people shouldn't write about themselves in the third person. (See her main page to understand, she was the first to suspect, investigate, confirm and publish that someone committed suicide, but writes about it in the third person.)
I think that she may have also invented the internet.
The North County Times ( [a href=http://www.nctimes.com/articles/2006/01/15/news/top_stories/23_41_281_14_06.txt] nctimes.com [/a]) verifies that the above website is hers, by her own admission.
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"I think we ought to explode the myth of oversight," said Bonnie Russell, 55, of Del Mar, who started the Web site //www.familylawcourts.com during her own custody battle and believes more government involvement is not the answer. "There's not enough budget for real oversight, but more importantly, there's not enough interest."
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Further down the article, more in depth information:
"Russell, the Del Mar-based outspoken critic of the family court system, said, however, that supervised visitation should "cease" because it's an added burden on supervised parents, no oversight exists, and judges treat reports from monitors like they have "therapeutic value" when they do not.
Russell, who was ordered to have supervised visits with her daughter before eventually being ordered to have no contact with the girl, said it is "obscene" that parents have to pay to see their children, in addition to child support, and that paid monitors are not needed to make sure children are safe.
"You're either OK to see your kid or your not," Russell said."
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Another Article from nctimes is viewable at:
http://www.nctimes.com/articles/2005/05/01/news/state/15_21_334_30_05.txt
... If you need a good la la la la laugh ...
http://www.newsmakingnews.com/krausedailyjournal6,6,02.htm
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You should read that last one to understand her a little better. I'm not passing judgement on her, however. I can understand her frustration, more than she can understand mine.
I think that I'm a little judgeMental myself.
but it's still...
Whois search shows that her website http://www.familylawcourts.com is registered to "Say no more" ( I wish that she would )
"Privacy is for every 1 ... Anonymous" and etc...
Why Hide if your a$$ is showing?
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FatherTime thinks... that people shouldn't write about themselves in the third person. (See her main page to understand, she was the first to suspect, investigate, confirm and publish that someone committed suicide, but writes about it in the third person.)
I think that she may have also invented the internet.
The North County Times ( [a href=http://www.nctimes.com/articles/2006/01/15/news/top_stories/23_41_281_14_06.txt] nctimes.com [/a]) verifies that the above website is hers, by her own admission.
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"I think we ought to explode the myth of oversight," said Bonnie Russell, 55, of Del Mar, who started the Web site //www.familylawcourts.com during her own custody battle and believes more government involvement is not the answer. "There's not enough budget for real oversight, but more importantly, there's not enough interest."
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Further down the article, more in depth information:
"Russell, the Del Mar-based outspoken critic of the family court system, said, however, that supervised visitation should "cease" because it's an added burden on supervised parents, no oversight exists, and judges treat reports from monitors like they have "therapeutic value" when they do not.
Russell, who was ordered to have supervised visits with her daughter before eventually being ordered to have no contact with the girl, said it is "obscene" that parents have to pay to see their children, in addition to child support, and that paid monitors are not needed to make sure children are safe.
"You're either OK to see your kid or your not," Russell said."
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Another Article from nctimes is viewable at:
http://www.nctimes.com/articles/2005/05/01/news/state/15_21_334_30_05.txt
... If you need a good la la la la laugh ...
http://www.newsmakingnews.com/krausedailyjournal6,6,02.htm
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You should read that last one to understand her a little better. I'm not passing judgement on her, however. I can understand her frustration, more than she can understand mine.
I think that I'm a little judgeMental myself.
but it's still...
LOL!
OMG, I wish I could say that all this craziness on her part surprises me...but I can't. Her letter to us had all the hallmarks of the professional nutcase.
She's been arrested twice for violating a restraining order and interfering with court business, and served time in jail, surprise, surprise. She also had a negative psychological evaluation that diagnosed her as suffering from borderline personality disorder, susceptible to "impulsivity" and "lack of control."
Thanks, FatherTime, this was an eye-opener.
It's women like this one who give the rest of us a bad name. She's seriously is a nutjob.