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thank you, for any help / feed back provided..
I have recently divorced my ex wife has already gone through two relationships... my ex wife has realized that she is a lesbian and has a livin girl friend. my 4 year old son sleeps in the same bed room that aperenlty my ex and her girl friend also sleep in ... what is the california state law regarding this tiopic and or how do the courts (custody) see this and have responded on this matter. i dont ask my son any question, id rather beat my self up then put him through an interigation

let me add that the first boy friend after our separation about 2 years ago, was with a pasadena regesterd sex offender  named ROCKY DAVID ESPARZA out of pasadena califonia/ found him on megans law.org

>thank you, for any help / feed back provided..
>I have recently divorced my ex wife has already gone through
>two relationships... my ex wife has realized that she is a
>lesbian and has a livin girl friend. my 4 year old son sleeps
>in the same bed room that aperenlty my ex and her girl friend
>also sleep in ... what is the california state law regarding
>this tiopic and or how do the courts (custody) see this and
>have responded on this matter. i dont ask my son any question,
>id rather beat my self up then put him through an interigation
>
>
>let me add that the first boy friend after our separation
>about 2 years ago, was with a pasadena regesterd sex offender
>named ROCKY DAVID ESPARZA out of pasadena califonia/ found him
>on megans law.org

What does your divorce decree say about overnight guests? Mine says that neither person can have overnight guests (other than family members or unless they remarry) in the house when they have the child.

If you don't have a clause like that, you may have to go back to court to get a clause like that added.

I doubt if there's any specific law about it, though, so you may not be able to do anything about it unless you can get wording added to your divorce decree, but you should probably consult with an attorney familiar with the law and practice in your area to be sure.

thank you so much...... i will talk to my lawyer and see that he adds this or at least brings it up and acts on it....

you have been a big help. god bless you

I just wanted to let you know that I am an adult child of a gay father. If you ever need advice on anything realted to your ex's sexuality and how it effects your child, please feel free to post or PM me.

Best wishes
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