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Title: Help with letter to X
Post by: NeverGiveUp on Feb 23, 2004, 07:19:13 AM
I'm writing a letter to my X regarding an issue that she refuses to respond to.  The issue affects our children's benifets and my paycheck.  Is it bad form to CC my attorney on this 3rd letter in order to "send a message".  I don't want to fight about this but I do want a response and I'm not getting one.


Thanks,
Title: RE: Help with letter to X
Post by: Troubledmom on Feb 23, 2004, 10:47:22 AM
If she is refusing to reply... it is not inappropriate to cc your attorney and hers as well.
Also remember to use certified mail so that she cannot say she did not get the letter.
In the body of the letter request that she respond by a specific date, generally unless there is a time constraint for you that doesn't accomidate it, 10 days would be appropriate.
TM
Title: RE: Help with letter to X
Post by: Troubledmom on Feb 23, 2004, 10:47:22 AM
If she is refusing to reply... it is not inappropriate to cc your attorney and hers as well.
Also remember to use certified mail so that she cannot say she did not get the letter.
In the body of the letter request that she respond by a specific date, generally unless there is a time constraint for you that doesn't accomidate it, 10 days would be appropriate.
TM