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Title: mother's trying to move 9 hours away please help
Post by: fighting to be dad on Nov 03, 2014, 08:33:55 PM
I have a one ye old daughter we are still in hearings she wants to move from Ohio to Savannah GA I have every other weekend visitation right now what can and should I do to get custody o
Title: Re: mother's trying to move 9 hours away please help
Post by: Waylon on Nov 04, 2014, 04:15:34 AM
You probably want to file papers to prevent a move-away; these articles will help get you started:



Quote from: fighting to be dad on Nov 03, 2014, 08:33:55 PM
I have a one ye old daughter we are still in hearings she wants to move from Ohio to Savannah GA I have every other weekend visitation right now what can and should I do to get custody o
Title: Re: mother's trying to move 9 hours away please help
Post by: ocean on Nov 04, 2014, 01:03:19 PM
Yup, file for a restraining order on child not to be removed from county without court approval (even for vacations). If you are in the middle of hearings, did mom already tell the courts of her intention to move? Move-aways are harder and harder to get now, mom can move but child then stays with you. However, the child in an infant and judges still side with mom on this so if she is allowed to move:
1. She pays for travel or brings child to you for visits
2. Look for a good long distance visitation schedule and add that whenever you are in her state, you can have daughter for xx days in a row , staying with you in hotel.
3. Hard to change orders to look and get everything in these papers, what happens when child goes to school, school vacations, holidays, summer vacations, birthdays...
Title: Re: mother's trying to move 9 hours away please help
Post by: fighting to be dad on Nov 04, 2014, 11:24:44 PM
As far as I know she hasn't formally notified the court.
Title: Re: mother's trying to move 9 hours away please help
Post by: MixedBag on Nov 05, 2014, 04:53:51 AM
there's different schools of thought on this...  When you hear about it, some people will say "file and be first" to let the court know.

Other judges/attorneys want you to react vs. being proactive....

I find myself being proactive....but you gotta decide what's best for you and your child.