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Hello,
I need advice on where to even start. I am an un wed father whom lives in California, and my son lives in Wisconsin with his Mother. I travel to see him once a month. The mother is very difficult and an emotional wreck. I believe I could do a much better job parenting this child. However, he is only 2 years old so would it be detrimental to him to fight for full placement? I need help on where to look for info on the whole out-of state issue. I feel very issolated in this case. Help!
Thanks in advance.

This will get you started.



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Success Factors In Obtaining Custody
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One of the first things you'll hear around here is "Document, document, document!". Having good records is *crucial*. Get yourself either the Parenting Time Tracker (PTT) at: http://www.deltabravo.net/custody/tracker.htm or the OPTIMAL Custody Tracking service at: http://www.parentingtime.net. The PTT is good, but the OPTIMAL service is definitely better.

First the wisconsin fathers group is   //www.wisconsinfathers.org

second look up relevant statutes  //www.legis.state.wi.us
particularly statutes # 948.31  and EVERYTHING in statute # 767
and statute # 968.31

the third site is   //www.wcca.wicourts.gov   this site has relevant court info like if she or anyone she runs around with has a court record.

These 3 sites and SPARC have helped us more than our attorney!!