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The BM refused to put SS on the airplane for the Christmas visit.  She already had the ticket DH bought but refused to use it.  Instead she drove 12 hours to deliver the SS -- 6 hours late by the 12:00 p.m. requirement.

  We are hoping the following language in a bilateral agreement will help for next time.  We don't really expect her to sign the agreement but we thought we'd give it a try as we are offering to accommodate some of her desired changes in the visitation schedule.  

1.  Air Travel:  The parties agree to provide the logistics to and from the airport in the event that the parties, either together or individually, provide airline tickets for the minor children for the purposes of visitation.

2.  As currently written the transfer times are 12:00 p.m.  Do you think we need to add language about allowing time adjustments since we have no control over the airline schedule?  I'd hate for her to refuse because the airplane arrives at 10 a.m. or something.

Thanks for your input.  Your are the best!

LizaLou

"logistics?" Say exactly what you want so there is no need for interpretation.

Same goes for time. Say what you want.