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Main Forums => Dear Socrateaser => Topic started by: Confused stepmom on Nov 17, 2004, 09:03:43 AM
My boyfriend has 4 kids (all 4 different mothers). Yes I know he needs to cut it off! But I have a few questions.
1. If mother #1 doesn't like mother #4 can she say that she wont bring the child over anymore, it has to go by court order right?
2. Mother #1 can't dictate who he can be with or be around her child right? when its dads visitation I mean.
3. Mother #3 is sucking him dry for child support, how can we get a reduction in child support.
thanks!
>My boyfriend has 4 kids (all 4 different mothers). Yes I
>know he needs to cut it off! But I have a few questions.
>
>1. If mother #1 doesn't like mother #4 can she say that she
>wont bring the child over anymore, it has to go by court order
>right?
Well, cutting "IT" off, may be a little extreme, but yeah, he should consider using a condom.
Depends on the specific custody orders -- maybe so, maybe not.
>
>2. Mother #1 can't dictate who he can be with or be around
>her child right? when its dads visitation I mean.
Same answer as #1, above.
>
>3. Mother #3 is sucking him dry for child support, how can we
>get a reduction in child support.
Depends on the law of the State with jurisdiction over support order #3, and the current financial circumstances of the child's mother and father.
I really can't answer without knowing the specifics.