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I got a call from BM's mother yesterday telling me that BM had been in an accident in FL on Monday and was killed. She and BM's dad drove down there and I talked to her again today and she confirmed that it was indeed, BM.

DH and I are feeling a lot of different things about this. The main one is relief that we can stop looking over our shoulders now and right behind it, pity that BM was never able to overcome her demons and be able to be a positive influence in her daughter's life.

I adopted my former SD almost 3.5 years ago, so she has not seen or heard from BM in nearly 5 years, but we are still worried about how she is going to take this. You just never know with this one.

BM's parents are going to detour our way on their way back to MI this weekend though so they can see YDD.

Please keep this family in your prayers. They will need all of them that they can get.

Thanks,

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How sad.  We will surely keep this family in our prayers.

And it does sound horrible but isn't it relief when you don't have to worry about people looking over your shoulder.

**These are my opinions, they are not legal advice**