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Main Forums => Visitation Issues => Topic started by: JML6501 on Jun 06, 2012, 08:08:05 AM
Ok so I could use a little feedback please. I have had a 50/50 3 days on 3 days off parenting plan with my daughter since she was 8 months old. NO home is designated as primary. My ex lives about a 45 minute drive and we have met half way for exchanges. I have never been less then 15 minutes early for an exchange nor missed any parenting time. My daughter has 2 other siblings that live with me on the same schedule. I fought like hell to get this, challenging a move-away case and won. It was a full fight including a CFI that was in favor of what I was asking. The issue now is that my child is almost five and school is right around the corner. The ex is a teacher and since she is an "education expert" she is wanting our daughter to attend school where she lives. Im almost certain that she will be filing a modification any day. I imagine that she will want me to have every other weekend. What I will propose is that we do our best to maintain the status quo in a 50/50 schedule of some sort. Since she is in fact a teacher and has the summers off, she would be able to have week days in the summer, me having weekends, and during the school year I would have our child to attend the same school my other children have attended that is blocks away. What ever time needs equaled back to 50/50 will be made up with school holidays or additional time in the summer. IF the rolls where reversed, since I work year round and get no winter /spring breaks, maintaing a 50/50 would be near impossible.
Would love any feedback/advice. Thanks in advance.