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Main Forums => Second Families => Topic started by: Ref on Jun 01, 2013, 02:08:32 PM
Hi guys!
It's been a long time. I hope everyone is doing well.
My SD is now 22 years old. Our story, at least my part, started when she was only 5 years old.
SD has now cut us off for 2 years. I miss her terribly but am really concerned about reuniting. We have a wonderful 3 yo now and I don't look forward to introducing her into that drama.
I tried using my old techniques to find out where she is and how she's doing but she is very well hidden.
Take care,
Ref
REF!!!!!!!!!! It's great to hear from you!!! ;D
I can completely understand your trepidation about reuniting with SD. I agree...involving your 3 y.o. into this, without knowing what the outcome might be (given the history), might not be the best idea. But I think that, if you do find her, just letting her know that you and DH are there for her and still love her no matter what would still be a good thing. Maybe leave it up to her if she wants to reunite?
Stick around for awhile, k? ;)
yeah.....that's a blast.
stick around and good to hear from you