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Main Forums => Father's Issues => Topic started by: 331318 on Jun 17, 2004, 11:09:13 AM
HI, I HAVE A EIGHT YEAR OLD DAUGHTER WHOM I LOVE AND MISS VERY MUCH. ME AND THE MOM HAVE NEVER REALLY BEEN A COUPLE SHE WAS CONCIEVED BASICALLY FROM US NOT BEING RESPONSIBLE. I AM CAUGHT UP ON MY CHILD SUPPORT BUT AT THE MOMENT I HAVE A SON IN COLLEGE AND ANOTHER DAUGHTER GETTING READY TO TRY AND CO BACK TO COLLEGE AND A SON WHO IS A FRESHMAN IN HIGH SCHOOL. I AM NOT IN A FINANCIAL POSITION TO GO THROUGH THE COURT SYSTEM TO GET MY RIGHTS SO OVER THE YEARS ANYTIME HER MOM DECIDES FOR WHATEVER REASON I CANT SEE HER I DONT FOR LONG STRETCHES OF TIME. I GEUSS WHAT MAKES ME MAD IS OVER THE YEARS HER MOM HAS ONLY HAD ONE JOB FOR A BREIF PERIOD OF TIME AND MANIPULATED THE SYSTEM THE REST OF THE TIME. AND SHE HAS ALWAYS FOR SOME REASON THOUGHT ON TOP OF ME PAYING CHILD SUPPORT I OWE HER SOMETHING. I DO BIRTHDAYS AND CHRISTMAS AND IF I SEEE MY DAUGHTER NEEDS SOMETHING I WILL PROVIDE BUT I HAVE REACHED MY LIMIT. WITH THE MANIPULATION AND NOW MY DAUGHTER IS GETTING TO OLD FOR ME NOT TO BE AROUND JUST LOOKING FOR SUGGESTIONS UNTIL I CAN AFFORD TO GO TO COURT