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www dot topix dot com/forum/louisville/TJ340BT2DVETKAPNP/p5 is a web site I found when I put your name into google.
I did some research on google and found this post Feb 2010 before you accident. It states the a Jolene Reedy owes over $12000 in back child support. But you said in your post that "I have always paid my support for the children until this accident happened"

But I guess you never do anything wrong and never lie too.

wow well i was coming back on here to ask one more question but looks like I better clear some things up.

my ex husband did not have a mailing address for me because I lost my home when i had to stop working and I just now have a perment address.. I am lucky enough to have  loving friends and family that have helped support me through out this time, as far as me moving is none of your business as to why and under what circumstanses.  my ex husband was stateing to the court I have had no contact with the children or him since june 2010 wich is not even close to being true. even though I have not provided him with an address up untill this point he and my children have always had a phone number for me. I have always paid my support for the children untill this accident happend. It was not reported right away because I was in no condition to deal with the matter. He did know what had happend I called him and told him what happend he called me a lier and hung up the phone on me.  I have had contact with my children up untill the point he quit answering the phone.  As far as providing meical records to him or anyone... um if you think about it I had to have time to go to the doctor these past months and a determination of me being disabled is not just a one visit ruleing.  my ex husband is by no means struggling to support  the children at this time, that is not the problem I know what is but I am not going to sit here and bash on him.  as far as haveing to wait to apply for my disability it states on the site that you have to be out of work for 1 year before a determination is made. I have not even hit that one year mark. so I suggets before you call someone a bad mother or father you know all the facts. you would not like that said about you.

Anyhow I had court and I did have time to submit my paperwork wich I am greatfull for it is extended untill the 18th because of the medical records. I am certain now that my children will not be taken away per his request because I had phone records of many calls and txts back and forth, copys of some very rude comments of things he said he would be telling the children about me. and my mecical records.. that is all i was worried about it was not about the support, I did not ask to have it zero out that was what the childsupport in california told me.  but anyhow hopefully this will all straiten out and we can come to an agreement that will be in the best interest of the boys. and again thank you everyone for your support and help with this matter. (sorry it caused such a blow out on the site:)

Wow...your first post is that?
This lady is just went through a disability, was forced to move, and currently can not work due to the disability. While she is going through that her ex, is refusing contact with kids. Hopefully she is able to get disability which would be great for the kids as they will get payments directed to them. This is a federal program that you pay into with every paycheck. She is entitled to this money and so are their kids (if she is truly disabled).

Ocean: I'm sorry that I don't have 3224 post to validate my opinion like you do. Why does it matter if I have one post or 1000. What is not in this post is the ex husband's side. What has he gone thru for the last several months of not getting support? Must be under alot of stress and is very difficult for one person to support children while the other parent doesn't want to pay childsupport. I can only imagine what he is going through. So open your mind to what you read. Be objective! Not just think that what people write on here is always the truth.

I'm thankful everyday that my ex-husband supports our children. That is the only thing that matters, that the children are supported.

Ocean: Where does it say that she was forced to move? My dislike is parents that refuse to pay thier children child support. If she claims to have been in an accident in Dec why didn't she start the paperwork in Jan to help the children out. She also stated that she has talked to the children and then says that her ex won't let her talk to the children in her post.....which is it. If she is disabled then why didn't she call childsupport in which ever state and let them know? Sounds very fishy to me.

Well I have read all your questions and you claim that you have done "nothing wrong?" wow you must be perfect! Nothing gets to the point you are at by doing nothing! Why did your ex mail the paperwork to your mother in Montana? Did you not provide him an address or only provide him an address since your ex filed court paperwork? Everything you are asking help for sound like you don't want to pay child support to your children.....what kind of person are you? Don't you even care about providing support or are you just selfish and only care about yourself? If you don't have a job how do you have internet? a phone? how to you move from CA to VA? You did all this without having a job is amazing!!!!  Why didn't you file paperwork back in Dec....why did you wait all this time to provide medical paperwork? That sounds like you only care about yourself. But oh that is right....you have done "nothing wrong" Sounds to me like you are not telling the truth!!!

My ex does anyting he can to pay his child support. He would never treat our children like dirt and not pay any support. Everything you have said Jolene is that you want to talk to your children but not work for them! Child support is for the children! I can't believe the type of parent you are by not wanting to work to provide support to the children. You give women a bad name and I am ashamed to hear that you would do such a thing.