SD moved in with us in September of 09. DH went through a lawyer and had official custody papers drawn up and filed in our state (MA). DH has custody of SD16 and BM has custody of SS17. There's a court order for CS on SS17.
BM moved to TX at the end of January 2010. We flew SD out there in April '10 and SS here. BM didn't have the money to fly them in the summer or SD at Christmas, so SD went almost a year without seeing her mother. Two weeks ago, SD decided that she wants to move back in with BM.
SD's leaving this Sunday. BM already bought the ticket. DH knows SD's not going to change her mind, so he's letting her go without a fight. We have an 18mo in the house to think about too.
Aside from the fact that SD won't have been in TX for six months, can MA hold jurisdiction as long as DH stays in MA??? Would BM have to file any/all paperwork here in our state?
There is currently a child support order for SS through MA. BM would have to officially file for and get change of custody in order to add SD to this correct?
It was an agreed order based on a few factors and DH wanted to get it done without a huge amount of fuss. DH doesn't plan on sending any CS for SD until custody has been officially changed and a new order established. He's spent years taking BM's word on what she makes (~10K/year for the last 10 years) and now wants her official information before agreeing to anything.
Any input on the best course of action (or inaction) would be great!
Thanks,
BM moved to TX at the end of January 2010. We flew SD out there in April '10 and SS here. BM didn't have the money to fly them in the summer or SD at Christmas, so SD went almost a year without seeing her mother. Two weeks ago, SD decided that she wants to move back in with BM.
SD's leaving this Sunday. BM already bought the ticket. DH knows SD's not going to change her mind, so he's letting her go without a fight. We have an 18mo in the house to think about too.
Aside from the fact that SD won't have been in TX for six months, can MA hold jurisdiction as long as DH stays in MA??? Would BM have to file any/all paperwork here in our state?
There is currently a child support order for SS through MA. BM would have to officially file for and get change of custody in order to add SD to this correct?
It was an agreed order based on a few factors and DH wanted to get it done without a huge amount of fuss. DH doesn't plan on sending any CS for SD until custody has been officially changed and a new order established. He's spent years taking BM's word on what she makes (~10K/year for the last 10 years) and now wants her official information before agreeing to anything.
Any input on the best course of action (or inaction) would be great!
Thanks,