I have a 16 mth boy and I have not spoke to the father since I was 5 months pregnant. He has never tried to contact me, nor have I him. I have been scared to collect support in the fear that he would feel obligated or have rights to this child that he obviously doesn't care about. I think I am past the being scared part, and am wondering if anyone has suggestions on what to do. God knows I fully support my baby w/out any help whatsoever and would gladly take child support. But, I don't want him around. Can rights be terminated and still collect? HELP! Thanks! Brandi