I am new to all this "Custodial Parent" stuff. I am an Unwed Father that gained primary custody.
Now, however, I have the battle of my life apparently trying to get the NCP to follow the court order. She lives a few states away and the court order states that she is allowed to have visitation by flying our child to and from visitation. She has been given a deviation in Child support to provide for this. She sent me an email that states she will be Driving this 14 hour trip. I feel that if I allow this, I will be in contempt. But I also feel that if I deny this visitation based on the court order I can also be held in contempt.
How can I proceed? Do I deny, or allow? Are there any legal actions that can be taken if I deny based on the information?
thanks
Now, however, I have the battle of my life apparently trying to get the NCP to follow the court order. She lives a few states away and the court order states that she is allowed to have visitation by flying our child to and from visitation. She has been given a deviation in Child support to provide for this. She sent me an email that states she will be Driving this 14 hour trip. I feel that if I allow this, I will be in contempt. But I also feel that if I deny this visitation based on the court order I can also be held in contempt.
How can I proceed? Do I deny, or allow? Are there any legal actions that can be taken if I deny based on the information?
thanks