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I have a 2 year old daughter, and I'm kinda wondering what's the experience in ways that other fathers out there have experienced some type of discrimination.
Besides the usual family court law poopoo we have do deal with...
I have such a hard time taking my daughter out and about.  Most every place I go to have no place at all for a father to change a diaper. I typically have to have someone stand outside a woman's restroom, and guard the door while I go in and use the changing table. There's been times I've even had to take my daughter out to the car to change her. Every womans bathroom I've seen has a place to change diapers, but rarely does a mans room have a changing table. I've even encountered some government buildings like this.
I'm thinking of starting an online database of 'father friendly' places.

Arizona state...
Ordered by the court to pay child support, DNA test says I'm the father, but I am not even on the birth certificate. Legal?

In mid March I filed a divorce against my wife due to the constant abuse she dished out towards me and our 20 1/2 month old daughter. Long story but she had ran off on me during her pregnancy, so I am not on my daughters birth certificate. Yes, mental issues...
In late march she ran off, filed the typical RO on me which got denied. I immediately retained a lawyer who filed a motion for paternity about the second week of march. After 20 days the motion for paternity expired (and the wife ignored it), so the motion defaulted to an order of paternity. Problem is the order for paternity has been setting on the Judges desk for 3 weeks now, just waiting for a rubber stamp signiture. After multiple calls and even the lawyer filing a formal request for ruling, my order of paternity is still being ignored. I have not seen my daughter in 2 months now! And she's in the hands of an abusive mother!
What can I do?!