Our daughter is 11 months and I have had limited to no access to her for 8 months. I attended all of the OB visits, breastfeeding classes, birthing classes, pediatrician visits, night care 3 nights a week, cleaning house and doing what needed to be done to help BM when I was not taking care of our daughter. That all ended when our daughter was 3 months.
We are currently going through parent coordination. BM has lied, cried and denied to manipulate the parent coordinator into thinking that I do not know how to take of our daughter and has said that I do not have the common sence to care for our daughters safety. After 2 months of "coordinating" I have had no alone time with my daughter and now it looks like our parent coordinator is recommending the minimum time sharing plan (wednesday and every other weekend).
Our first attempt at parent coordination was cancelled by BM. Our first coordinator was suggesting 50-50.
BM's family is highly conflictive (verbally and physically) with any difference in opinion. I don't believe it is our daughters best interest to be raised in a love you, hate you environment. What should I do? Any assistance would be greatly appreciated.
We are currently going through parent coordination. BM has lied, cried and denied to manipulate the parent coordinator into thinking that I do not know how to take of our daughter and has said that I do not have the common sence to care for our daughters safety. After 2 months of "coordinating" I have had no alone time with my daughter and now it looks like our parent coordinator is recommending the minimum time sharing plan (wednesday and every other weekend).
Our first attempt at parent coordination was cancelled by BM. Our first coordinator was suggesting 50-50.
BM's family is highly conflictive (verbally and physically) with any difference in opinion. I don't believe it is our daughters best interest to be raised in a love you, hate you environment. What should I do? Any assistance would be greatly appreciated.