OK, so here is what happened. Just as we thought, the GAL was assigned. BM fought for private GAL to be paid for by BF and BM so we fought for court appointed GAL or if private GAL is assigned we felt that we should not pay as we don't think it is necessary. We feel that there is so little cause for visitation denial that a GAL who acctually sees abuse cases, etc. will be amazed at how wonderful my husband is and perplexed by why the girls are refusing to visit. We found out today that they are claiming emotional abuse...This is like a twightlight zone moment as we are trying to think of what they might be talking about. Apparently there is no proof required to appoint the GAL so that is what happened.
And so it begins. The GAL will interview everyone and will probably make a "plan" for visitation to reoccur and then the girls will refuse to comply and we will be out the money for the attorney....again.
What continues to amaze us is how the BM can file this motion or that motion and drag things out and NO ONE ever tells her that she must provide the children for visitation. The commissioner only ruled on the line item which was GAL or no GAL. This really feels like a bad B movie. At least we now know from all of our research that none of this will probably change a thing and we must just wait for the girls to get past this part of their lives.
Will keep everyone posted about the process. Hopefully it is helpful. We are coming up on the 2 year anniversary of the divorce....isn't it amazing that we are only at this point? And the girls just keep growing up without us....
Sadly, Lawless
And so it begins. The GAL will interview everyone and will probably make a "plan" for visitation to reoccur and then the girls will refuse to comply and we will be out the money for the attorney....again.
What continues to amaze us is how the BM can file this motion or that motion and drag things out and NO ONE ever tells her that she must provide the children for visitation. The commissioner only ruled on the line item which was GAL or no GAL. This really feels like a bad B movie. At least we now know from all of our research that none of this will probably change a thing and we must just wait for the girls to get past this part of their lives.
Will keep everyone posted about the process. Hopefully it is helpful. We are coming up on the 2 year anniversary of the divorce....isn't it amazing that we are only at this point? And the girls just keep growing up without us....
Sadly, Lawless