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#11
Father's Issues / ABEL testing
Nov 08, 2007, 05:04:26 PM
Hi,
has anyone done this testing?
#12
thanks for the advice.

well, my name is "falsely accused", but I should have stated in my post I am falsely accused as well.   Yes, I am fasely accused, by a vengeful emotinally unstable woman.   I'll look up Dean Tong's information.  
#13
Father's Issues / RE: scene from Gladiator.....
Nov 06, 2007, 10:49:42 AM
o.k. thanks.

but, should an innocent person deny an unrelated allegation that may be part true (because the other side will exaggerate to the highest degree)?  I mean, you assume that any allegation you make to the other side will be denied.   Even if you KNOW that it is true.

My question is about courtroom culture.  I get the impression that it is the same old same old, accuse and deny, for both sides.   Makes it hard to get to the truth probably.  
#14
Father's Issues / RE: scene from Gladiator.....
Nov 06, 2007, 08:02:33 AM
thanks for the input.

So, if I am going to interpret what you are saying......

Deny somethings even if they are true?  As long as they don't have proof?    Is this common?    Obviously a breach of oath.  
#15
I am going to first hearing for divorce.    Haven't seen my wife in a long time because of restraining order.  I will see her soon for the first time and she will make the allegations against me, that I am the lowest most terrible person I am sure.   I am sure it will be all blown out of proportion and make me want to get swallowed up by a hole in the ground.   I am worried I will have such a hard time with it and be so hurt I might lose my grip.   She is emotionally unstable and does not see clearly, and has always exaggerated little things I did wrong.   She thinks I am terrible, and it is so opposite who I am.  MY good points far outweigh my bad.   There must be humanity and fairness in this.  I really don't feel like trashing her, I just don't have the hate.  

I feel like Russel Crowe in the movie gladiator, when he was in the middle of the colesseum with the other gladiators he was to put on a defense with.   He told them, "whatever comes out of that gate be ready and stick together...."    He felt like he was going to pee in his pants probably, not knowing what was going to attack him, not knowing if he was going to get attacked by lions or chariots or other gladiators.   He just sat and waited and calculated.  

I am that man standing in the middle of the colesseum.   There are many people watching.   I really did not even do anything wrong.   I don't know what is going to hit me.   I am a little afraid honestly.  

Any advice???
#16
Hi, I've been accused of sex abuse of my daughter and my wife filed for divorce.   I haven't been able to see my kids yet.   Conclusion of investigation is that something happened to my daughter.  But I have been found innocent/"unfounded".   Apparently my wife is still pursuing this and wants to try and prove it was me in civil/ divorce court.   I feel good that I have the unfounded charge, but realize I need to be on my guard because my wife will still try to suade the judge and make it out like I got away with something.  

It appears the real perpetrator is going free.   My daughter has been to many houses.

Anyway, I really need help.   I could use help / friends who can give me some advice on the following:

1.  how to prepare defense, I have an attorney but I need real advice from someone who has been through it.
2.  To explain all the process that you had to go through.  I.E. - psychological tests, some are to test if you are a sexual deviate I think.
3.  Just share your emotions. The little things.  How you coped with depression, etc....

I would consider exchanging personal information, and would love to talk with someone even over the phone.  

thanks