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Two possible reason:

1) She is desperate, has no control and is trying to mess with you.

or

2) There really is a possibility that you are not the bio-dad


I think the first one is the likelier of the two.  But, even if the second WERE true, your child knows YOU as the Dad.  Recent court cases have found out that certain dads weren't the bio-dad but they were still required to pay the support because it is in "the best interests of the child".  Your case could be a great example of the reverse situation.  Regardless of who the bio-dad is, YOU are the real father. But, as I said, earlier...I think she's trying to get into your head, get you doubting that you are the bio-dad and mess with you...keep us informed.

But I'm sure that there is a REASONABLE explanation for all of it.  It CAN'T be her fault, it is everbody else's.  After all, Cindy and my ex must have gone to the same school of blame.

thanks for the info...frankly, they're all a bunch of liars.

Wally,

  My whole-hearted congratulations!  It really is wonderful to hear. Way to go!

Sorry, he is the lesser of 2 evils IMHO

Cindy Ross...a very angry person who feels that she can say whatever she wants, but when questioned or called to task, claims SHE is the victim....maybe ny ex-wife changed her name....

The worst part of it all, is that just by writing this shit, people actually believe the stuff she writes.

You may have a "perspective" on this, but the bottom line is that it OFFENDS people.  It offends me and many other men I know.  Just because you feel it is "silly" does that mean we should just let it go? How about the one boy that does get rocks thrown at him?  Yes, ONE boy..would you consider it silly then?  
As far as what the general public thinks, they think that the tomahawk chop at Atlanta Braves games is inocuous...but do you think that American Indians think that?
And it is quite sad to know that you think potential violence and self-esteem are an insignificant issues.

You hit the nail on the head.  There never seems to be remorse until they are caught.