I keep thinking about the "toe necklace":-) LOL, and I think we'll just pay up.
Originally, we had every intent on making DH the "poster child" for the unconstitutionality of college support, but in reality, we're looking at going from 1100.00/mo in child support to, at most, 300.00/mo in college support. (Community college.)
You're right, Soc - paying 20K to fight that WOULD be like cutting our toe off and wearing it on a chain. In addition, there are few, if ANY, attorneys that would be willing to go the distance on this. We all know that they like to keep the status quo.
I don't like it, but at least the child has to actually DO something for the money, and it certainly won't be a cake walk for her... And an added benefit is that she will not be able to blame her Father for the absence of a college degree. She will be given a golden opportunity, and it will be oh so interesting to see how she uses it.
We will absolutely have an agreement in writing that will clearly state the conditions for our support. If you have the time, feel free to advise as to what this document might look like, and what stipulations will have legal merit. I've had great difficulty finding pertinent case law.
Best Regards,
Hazel
Originally, we had every intent on making DH the "poster child" for the unconstitutionality of college support, but in reality, we're looking at going from 1100.00/mo in child support to, at most, 300.00/mo in college support. (Community college.)
You're right, Soc - paying 20K to fight that WOULD be like cutting our toe off and wearing it on a chain. In addition, there are few, if ANY, attorneys that would be willing to go the distance on this. We all know that they like to keep the status quo.
I don't like it, but at least the child has to actually DO something for the money, and it certainly won't be a cake walk for her... And an added benefit is that she will not be able to blame her Father for the absence of a college degree. She will be given a golden opportunity, and it will be oh so interesting to see how she uses it.
We will absolutely have an agreement in writing that will clearly state the conditions for our support. If you have the time, feel free to advise as to what this document might look like, and what stipulations will have legal merit. I've had great difficulty finding pertinent case law.
Best Regards,
Hazel