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Rob,

  Be honest.  Be polite.  Do not bad mouth ex.  Ok to disagree with ex, but don't act like you have an axe to grind.  Focus on child/children.  It is all about them.  I wish you the best of luck.  Please keep us updated.  I have been through two of these, about two years apart.  One was extremely favorable, one was very close and gave edge to ex .

I sent you an email with the name of one in Belmont.  Good Luck.  

First and foremost, your brother needs a lawyer to see if he can get back some of the time.  I have dealt with the Massachusetts court system for the past 8 years.  Some of it is good...some not so good.  Unfortunately, it depends on which judge you get.  And money is always an issue.  Which part of Mass. is he from?

What is even more disturbing is the inevitable coaching they will now get  to further prevent them from wanting to be with their father...and after watching the behavior of this psycho-bitch,  I am quite sure the ex-husband will see how she uses this as a power trip and lets him know that she has won on every occasion she can....

Y'know Eric...you really are a moron......

>Or that the situation is already tense enough without a bunch
>of bad advice from a bunch of well intended but out of control
>fanatics who don't have a clue


Guess that's why you keep coming back, huh?

I think you are afraid that people here may give him advice that will piss you off but ultimately good for your child.

 
>Fathers 4 Justice is the World's largest equal parenting group
>with over
>10,000 registered supporters in the UK and branches in
>Australia, Canada and
>Holland. The group hope to launch in the US this Autumn.

Inititiation fee $25.
 

 Maybe I'm wrong but I didn't get that Brent was trying to be "honestly curious'.  I took it that he was blatantly being condescending....but who am I to judge?  And what exactly makes him evil?...oh yes, the fact that he was trying to hock a seminar on these boards for $25 and claim it  was fre...no, wait...that was you!  My mistake.

>Jilly was referring to a post that was on the boards last
>week that created quite a fuss. So, yes, she was being
>sarcastic. :-)
  Ah, yes, PainintheassGirl...trying to forget  her...now it makes sense....Thanx

>But where is the LOGIC??? Do you really think that GENETICS
>count for something in this case?? I bet the father didn't any
>have a BOND with this girl so what's the harm??  )(
>
>(Excuse me while I go change my name to Instigator! :7
>Sorry...just couldn't resist!)

I'm sorry..are you for real or are you being sarcastic??? Because if you really believe that...well, I'll wait to find out...