My son has Right of First Refusal and his CP refuses to go by the CO. He has her on tape refusing to abide. He doesn't have alot of money and needs some advice on what to to. He went to court just this Nov. and the judge awarded him this, and she has already left the child 7 times with her parents and refuses to let him have her. The CO order states that if she is going to be away over night she is to give the him the opportunity to keep her and she won't. Help!