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thanks for the info...it feels like i'm going to climb Mt. Everest in flip flops and a speedo...i think she's already started the CS proceedings with her state, but the amounts they are calculating are no where near the amounts that were in the divorce decree...so the numbers are inflated, not to mention compunding at an unbelievable rate...

is there any way to get an attorney to help me on this...pro bono? aren't there any services for guys like there are for them?

I am new here, trying to find some answers to my particular situation...

i haven't spoken to or seen my 2 children in 5 and half years...there are NO legal restrictions that would prevent me from seeing them...they live in another state and each inqiury that i have made is met with a 5K retainer to start and theat since it's in another jurisdiction, there's nothing they can do.

I am seriously delinquent in past child support but refuse to pay anything while I am forbidden contact by their mother.

I have also been told that the child support is a completely seperate issue in regards to visiting them.

How true is any of this and what can i do to see my kids. Even if I can just speak to them. She is 11 going on 12 in April, he is 9 going on 10 in July.

Can anyone help me?