Messages

Why would you terminate his rights? As long as he is making some kind of an effort to see the child why do so? Think of the consequences. What do you tell the child when they get older why you had his visitation rights terminated. I wouldn't think that you would want to lie about it. Are you going to tell the child that you stopped  letting daddy seeing you all together because he didn't see you enough? How will that look in the childs eye?  Eventually the X will make a greater effort in seeing the child or he will not. But don't take away his rights just because he doesn't see the child as offen as he could. Your parents are biased. They don't like your X, that I am sure of. What parent does like the X? They look at it as if this is the guy who hurt my daughter and put her in this situation. In their eyes he deserves nothing. In your childs eye, they deserve and want  their daddy even if it is not that often,as of now. As long as he is making some kind of an effort do what you can to help. For your childs sake.

Not sure if anyone else has gone through this but maybe I can learn something here. I was a gainfully employeed until a injury left me disabled. Since my injury I have been awarded a disability retirement. I was a Department of Defense employee(worked for the governmnet). Because I had no income coming in after my injury the court ordered the minimum amount required for child support. Up to my injury I was paying my child support monthly for 6 sixs without being court ordered. I never missed a payment. Anyways, because of my injury I will eventually be awarded a money settlement. I understand she(kids) are entitled to a portion of this settlement. Part of my settlement will be for lost wages. Is this what the court is figuring on? What about the other money awarded? For pain and suffering,medical bills, cosmetic surgery,ect. Is she also entitled to a portion of the money awarded to me also? Doesn't seem fair/right she would be entitled to any money awarded to me for my pain and suffering or medical bills ect. Is there somewhere I can get some good information on this matter?