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He hasn't attempted to call, write or come by when he's visited family in the area since she was 6 weeks old. I never thought about terminating his rights and I'm not sure if I really want to, but I do also understand what my family is telling me. Our last conversation in April 2003 was him asking me if I knew what type of an inconvenience she was to him. I try to keep telling myself that we're still young and he might change but I'm just really unsure. I'm not remarried nor am I trying to get that way any time soon, I just want to focus all my attention on my daughter and give her what I can. I just don't know what I should do about her BF.

I could use some help. I have a daughter who is about to be 3 years old and her BF hasn't seen her since she was 6 weeks old nor has he attempted to call in the last 2 1/2 years to check on her or provide any type of support. I'm not looking for any type of support from him but what I would like is for him to at least be curious on how HIS daughter is doing. I understand that he lives over 2 hours away and the few times he did drive out to see her (which he was coming to see some old friends anyway and just stopped by to see her while he was "nearby") he slept while holding her the entire time and when he woke up he always had somewhere else to be. My family is trying to get me to look into terminating his rights but I just keep thinking that she is so young and maybe he'll change but I just don't know.  And if I do look into terminating his rights I don't even know where to begin. Any help is apprecited.