Messages

I answered another response to this so I won't duplicate here. I had thought there might some "guidelines" regarding this matter. It is becoming more clear that there aren't any. If I can't get the conference officer to plagerize my suggestions into his recommendations, I will motion the Court to adopt them. Thanks for responding!

To make a long story short, there is no "parenting plan". After a dispute assessment done in April 2001, unsupervised and graduated reunification was authourized. Each therapist assigned to monitor this process was amenable to "fee for service" due to my financial limitations. Once they had visited w/mother, they voided their agreement with me and declared a requirement for a large retainer. The Court has ordered that until mother and I agree on a therapist, reunification will not happen. What makes the Court think she will agree to anything I propose is beyond my comprehension. Disagreement is the crux of our divorce. I have resigned myself to the "loss" of my children.

That does not mean I won't take care of my obligations to them. Unless someone can point to some rules or policies, I will proffer a list of what I feel to be reasonable expectations to the conference officer. Those expectations will include the following:

Was the insurance used properly?
Is the claim for one of my children?
How old is the claim?

We were unable to control our finances as a team effort. We actually declared bankruptcy twice in a ten year period. She isn't on my "team" any longer. Thus, she has no say in how I run my finances any longer.

I pay $750.00 a month in support. I carry medical, dental, and vision insurance for my kids. If she cannot establish the "claim" is for my child, that the insurance was used properly, and if she cannot establish this claim within 30 days from the date of service, she will not receive one red cent from me.

My case # DR2000-014206 in Phoenix AZ Maricopa County. I have an expedited services conference on 02.14.06. The X claims that I am not meeting my obligation to pay for uncovered medical expenses.

Is there some set of rules regarding how that should happen? Does she have a duty to be timely in submitting her claims to me? Do I have a duty to respond in a timely manner? I want to take of business. However, if she never sends the bill, how can I do that?

Is it reasonable for me to expect the X to show that the insurance company declined coverage? That the bill is, in fact, for my child? Does she have a duty to use the insurance properly before sending me the claim? Is there a statute of limitations on claims?