To start, I am not the father (I am his wife...)
My husband and I married 8 months ago but recently (2 months ago) his ex-wife called and said that she has a 2 yr old that is his, when she first got pregnant and when the child was born she told him he was not his, (when she came to texas and they married unknowingly to him she was still married to another man in Pa, and that is the one whos name is on the BC) we tried to find her many times to get a dna test to know for sure but she disappeared and goes by different names, ssn's, and changes her phone #'s when she called us up now we bought a parenity test and the results came back positive. She lives in PA with the baby we live in TX. He has only seen pics never meet his child, he is military so we can't just up and go. We KNOW by things she has told us via phone, email or text messages that she is not that great of a parent. My husband desparetly wants to meet and/or even raise his child, he is scared if she gets served with any kind of papers or even says anything negative to her that she will disappear again... What do we do???
My husband and I married 8 months ago but recently (2 months ago) his ex-wife called and said that she has a 2 yr old that is his, when she first got pregnant and when the child was born she told him he was not his, (when she came to texas and they married unknowingly to him she was still married to another man in Pa, and that is the one whos name is on the BC) we tried to find her many times to get a dna test to know for sure but she disappeared and goes by different names, ssn's, and changes her phone #'s when she called us up now we bought a parenity test and the results came back positive. She lives in PA with the baby we live in TX. He has only seen pics never meet his child, he is military so we can't just up and go. We KNOW by things she has told us via phone, email or text messages that she is not that great of a parent. My husband desparetly wants to meet and/or even raise his child, he is scared if she gets served with any kind of papers or even says anything negative to her that she will disappear again... What do we do???