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Yes you can do something.  You have all the same rights as your wife.  You need to file ASAP. She can not leave state with your daughter with out your consent.  But you need to file first.  In my state(AZ) when the parents are married UNTIL there is a court order saying other wise, BOTH parents shall have joint legal and physical custody.  YOU have those rights and now you need to exercise them!!!!

only my opinion and shared experience.

It is awful that someone would make such a false accusation.  The people that do that are the ones who are really sick.  BUT you are right i bet it happens alot.  Thank you for your advice. I hope everyone here gets what they deserve to be happy with thier kids.  

"Accusations tend to be made up at this critical time to prevent or limit the time"

She has already stated to other family members that my BF is a "daily Drug user"  My BF has never done drugs in his life.  His father is DPS and would've killed him if the thought even crossed his mind!  So it has already started.  I told my BF about this site and he is very interested and said he will be talking to you soon.  He needs this very much.  I want him to realize that something like this happens to others too.  He feels very alone and singled out.  I thank you so much for your wonderful advice.  GOD BLESS YOU.

She was served with Custody papers.

I will start from the beggining, bare with me.  My boyfriend has a 4 year old he has not seen in over 2years.  His ex-best friend (we will call her HP) moved in with him(as friends) 5-6years ago. She ended up getting pregnant.  My boyfriend did everything for her, bought all the baby supplies and even took her to and from school everyday.  When she was 6 months pregnant she told him she wanted to move out and be with her ex.  She told my b/f that he had to pay for her rent until she got on her feet, he did that.  No sooner did she move out she didnt want mt BF to be in the child's life.  She wanted her ex to be the father. When HP went into labor she refused to call my bf.  HP mother actually ended up calling my BF and he mad it just in time.  He was not allowed to stay and was ask to leave.  The other "father" was allowed to stay.  When the baby was 2weeks old a DNA was done and my BF is the father. HP refused to allow Brandon any contact.  MY BF then took it to court and made it as far as mediation.  HP told him they would work it out outside of court and she would allow him to see the baby whenever.  So he dropped the court.  As time went on she would only let him see her once a week and then HP changed her # and moved.  she went into hiding and her car, phone, apartment are in someone elses name.  HP wont even tell her own mother or sister where she is(afraid they will tell the courts)  It also turns out that HP s collecting Cash, Food Stamps and medical from the State and had to of told them the father wa unknown.  DE S has never contacted my BF for CS.  She had to of lied.   A few months ago HP's mother found her address and gave it to my BF and my BF filed and had her served with papers on 3-7-06.  The law is 20 days to respond and she still has not.  She tells friends of both family that BF will never see his daughter b/c her daughter already has a father.  My BF misses his daughter very much and wants to see her asap.  What can he do?  What do you recommend on a DEAFULT hearing? And what will happen since his daughter probably doesnt know who he is anymore.?