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Thank you.  That is excellent advise.  I really appreciate your time with this.

I could write a novel on here about my story.  Long story short, I have unfortunately had to fight for years now for joint custody of my son. I've only ever wanted to simply have an equal opportunity to raise my son, to be involved in his life and hold responsibility in all aspects of his life.  

My ex has done everything in her power to fight for sole custody. She has no grounds and has never succeeded.  However, the final result is she does have my son majority of the time.  I see him every Wed 5-8 and every other w/e Fri @ 5pm to Sunday till 7pm.  She has done everything in her power to brainwash or "program him".  He will be turning 7 this month.  

Back in January, she started to indicate my son does not want to come over here.  He does not want to talk to me on the phone.  She has single handely eliminated him from my life since.  Simutanesely, he has experienced troubles in school. He didn't want to go to school.  It turns out he was being bullied in school.  The school forced her to take him to a counsellor.  This counsellor has been zero help however.

The bottom line is I haven't seen my son in 3 months and have done everything imaginable to try to.  I believe the studies of Parental Alienation Sydrome as a strong possiblity of years results of her brainwashing him.

I suppose I'm just looking for any advise anyone may have for me so that I can maintain my releationship with my son.  I don't have much money to continue through courts to be noted.  I have spent unreal amounts already to sustain joint custody.  I just want my son to be happy!  I miss him terribly and it affects me every single day.  We were very very close.  I would do anything for him.

thank you everyone!