I am writting this for a friend of mine who is about to just lose it.
His ex in going to give birth soon and has already stated the she will not let him see the baby when he wants and that she is not sure how involved he will be because he has hurt her too much. He is not allowed to go to the doctor with her, can't hear the heart beat. He wants to be involved. He has tried talking,begging and pleading. He offers to do things she flips out on him.... she is just so angry... She said she would tell him when the baby is born,but, he wants to be a father. He can not call her, he has to wait for her to call him or send her an email.
What are the options in a situation like this and how does he start the ball rolling? Are there things he should or should not be doing at this point? What if she does not tell him when the baby is born and does not put him on the birth certificate?
Any help or advice would be greatly apprciated. I thank you sincerely for your time.
His ex in going to give birth soon and has already stated the she will not let him see the baby when he wants and that she is not sure how involved he will be because he has hurt her too much. He is not allowed to go to the doctor with her, can't hear the heart beat. He wants to be involved. He has tried talking,begging and pleading. He offers to do things she flips out on him.... she is just so angry... She said she would tell him when the baby is born,but, he wants to be a father. He can not call her, he has to wait for her to call him or send her an email.
What are the options in a situation like this and how does he start the ball rolling? Are there things he should or should not be doing at this point? What if she does not tell him when the baby is born and does not put him on the birth certificate?
Any help or advice would be greatly apprciated. I thank you sincerely for your time.