I found out about four months ago that I have a son who is about to turn two. From a three day realationship with a girl two years ago. Although being a fahter didnt really fit into my life plan. I stepped up and have been taking responsiblity for him every since. I see him regularly and i purchase all the things he needs when he needs them. His mother wants us to be together as a family, but that is not my intention. Like I ssaid we were never really in a realationship. So, now she is using my son against me to try and force me to be with her. I recenntly even found out she has been doing drugs off and on since she had our son. I'm nt sure what my rights are. All i know is i am finished letting her call all the shots. I would like to get joint custody of my son through the courts, so i dont have to surcome to her childish tactics anymore. I know most womeen win in custody battles, so im already doubting i can win. I also can't really afford thousands of dollars to pay an attorney and especially not if im just gonna lose anyway. Please help me if you can. i could use all the help i can get!
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