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She wants to live with us because in her house she feels like she is lost in the chaos (sp?)  The CP has remarried and had another child along with her 2 sisters both of which are older with the oldest living with us until last year.  She also says that she feels more loved and encouraged with us.  CP tends to bad mouth her father and I which I believe is also pushing her away.  She is usually with us 2 nights a week in addition to the every other weekend schedule and we are in the same school district.  Her oldest sister tends to be very verbally abusive to her and the CP does not seem to stop the behavor.

I am the SM to a 12 yo girl who currently lives with her mother.  She has expressed the desire to move with her dad and myself but we know the CP is very resistent.  We don't know if our efforts will be futile and cost a bunch of money.  We are already paying out the nose for CS for her and 3 others.  Any feedback?