you are doing the correct thing . i know how it is when u know that ur child is insecure . it must be very terrible but dnt worry everything will be fine . here is an address of a website that i am sure will be able to give u ur answers
http://www.iwishisaidno.com/forum/832-child-case-advice.html
good luck
http://www.iwishisaidno.com/forum/832-child-case-advice.html
good luck