Ever since the judge ordered week on/week off my son has been getting sick practically every week. The problem is, my ex husband has our son in a in home daycare which is my sons home on his weeks with his father(his gf has a daycare in her home) The gf only watches one other child (infant). When my son is with me I take him to a daycare facility that is reputable and is a school like setting for my son (5 years old) My ex is neurotic when it comes to our son playing with other kids and all the viruses that are floating around. I often ask him what he plans on doing when our son goes to an official school and his answer is he'll deal with it when the time comes. My ex actually brought the issue up in court last monday (I was asking the judge to hear our custody hearing instead of a referee (pretty much a rent a judge in the family courts of Michigan)). I tried explaining to my ex that this sort of thing happens when a child kept in the house all day and night one week and then goes into an enviornment with alot of kids the other week and that our sons body is constantly trying to get used to fighting off these viruses but my ex dosent get it. My question, he cant really use that in court can he? Its rediculous and the judge ignored my ex when he began to carry on about how he provides a better daycare for our son and the health issues our son has had the past month.
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