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I`m so glad to hear from someone else who has faced the issue of being miserable in a job just because of child support issues. I feel for anyone in that situation. I too faced that, I even got grilled in court by an attorney and a judge because I wanted to change carreers. I wanted to leave a 40,000 a year job because I hated it and because of being laid off all of the time to go into law enforcement at 25,000 a year. The courts refused to lower my child support so now I am forced to work two jobs to make ends meet. I thought this was a free country to do what you wanted within reason until I got divorced. Now I have no parental rights whatsoever. I can`t cut my childs hair, I can`t help decide what school she attends, I have no say in her medical care, I only get to see her every other weekend and one evening a week while she spends the rest of the week in daycare all due to her over bearing mother and Ohio`s court system. This I get at the amazing rate of 500 a month while her mother makes 50,000 a year and I make 25,000, what a bargain! Yes I am very angry and bitter and I constantly wish that her mother would drop out of the picture and let me have the relationship back I once had with my daughter. I have even fought her after the divorce for more time with my daughter in Ohio`s wonderful court system only to be denied. I would love to hear from anyone else who has had similar issues. There needs to be some changes made and I would love to be involved with anyone or anything that can help to make the needed changes.