I've been married now for 2 1/2 months to a woman who has not been diagnosed as a BPD, but has all the classic traits of one who has BPD. She has been seeing a Psycharatrist for PTSD and depression. She is pregnant now and we are expecting in January. She has been unbearable most of the time and talks about divorce a lot too. My question is what can I do to gain custody of this child when born? I've learned lately that she was a nude dancer, is in a porn video, has had 4 abortions in the past, has been sexally abused in her childhood, has taken many different types of narcotic drugs (Illegal), has had a DUI and many other traffic citations and has been to court over failing to pay rent, ect. Can anyone tell me if the video's and porn pic's will help me with my custody case? Most of this stuff I learned after we married. She is almost impossible to live with. Can anyone relate here?