Im not sure who Im writing to and this is my first time here but what I just read made me feel good. Somebody was kinda upset, and it sounds weird but Im glad. I thought when I came here for advice or support It wouldnt be long before people requested I leave because I cant help but get extremely pissed off when people that work so hard and love thier children so much get anything less then 100% parenting time. There is not any small hint of justice or common sense in the courts. Its nice to see that there is someone besides myself that is a little upset with the system. I really havent started to get mad yet because so far I have 100% custody of all 3 of my girls against pretty bad odds. Do you have a Lawyer? If you do fire him. Does the judge in your case take frequent 2 minute breaks coming back spraying binaca in his mouth? Are you in a town where its not uncommon for folks to refer to Ma and Pa as aunt and uncle? Someone was saying stuff about reciepts and paper trails. Hell ya start there! Theres no reason why you cant go into a court room and tell a judge what you said here and noy get everything you ask for. A judge is paid alot of money because of his ability execute justice. I was in a similar situation my ex was having the govnt give her monthly cash assistence pay her rent pay for groceries pay for utilities pay for her gas pay for daycare and even paid for 6 mos of car insurance,all while she was lucky enough to further her education which also was paid for along with student grant money that also gave her enough money to pay for living costs. While I worked ass off 6 days a week to give my paycheck to her too in hopes she would let me see my girls. It gets a million times worse but Ill get to the point. I love my girls and was happening was not right. I collected various paper things, notes, dr appt cards, phone numbers, and anything I could get my hands on. I made calls and talked to social workers, doctors,and every govnt agency I thought she might be taking advantage of. She now is homeless refuses to work and is lucky she still can see the kids 5-8 on wednesdays. If you tell a judge whats going on and show him evidence and he doesnt side with you let me know because Im pretty sure most americans wouldnt consider that justice and im pretty sure I can get a few thousand people to stand outside that court room until that judge can pull his head out of his ass. I think if someone wanted to they could convince a judge to issue a warrant for me for threats of mayhem by me stating I can get thousand people to storm the court house.I also think that you can convince a judge who is the better parent. I know this post is a little off the wall and you may think Im under the influence of something or drunk but Im not. for the last 8 months or so all Ive heard is laws need to be changed and somebody needs to do something and the system sucks. Im ready to start doing something about it. Anyways Id be happy to talk to you about my case and Things I did to have it work in my favor. Good luck