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WOW...

you must have some psychic connection to my mind... this is *exactly* the route i think, in my gut, is best to take!

you articulate it well... it is not the easiest to do, but i agree with all that you say.

tough love.

thank you...


regards,

dog.

hey, i'm a guy... i have no patience, and am led by two heads  ;-)

but, you are right... thanks.

regards,

dog.

ok, i may be looking for that magic bullet!

my daughter is doing wonderful... she has blossomed under the parenting plan that i put together.

she is a very happy, well adjusted child... who loves both her mom and her dad.  this was one thing in my life that i did right, but was against all odds.... i look back now and am very happy i did not take all the lawyers advice.

we continue the week to week custody, and her only complaint is that she wants to change it to live with me and maybe see her mom on the weekends... but, i still believe a child needs both parents, and i still *loath* visitation... for either parent.

thank you for your reply and advice...

regards,

dog.

hi Kent...

good to hear from you!

i recall many of our good conversations.

anyway, i am not back as a moderator, but have so many good memories of the good people here with such good ideas...

thank you for your reply and advice... it is wise.  i just don't trust myself in this situation *again* and i am worried i will fall into the same track.

i hope all is well with you.

regards,

dog.

howdy all...

i'm back after many of life's experiences!

anyway, some of you who may still remember my story... i find myself back where i was ten years ago.

i have met a beautiful woman who we hit it off tremendously... this one i enjoy more than just physical.

she is now filing for divorce with her husband of 14 years... she has two great kids, and is using the attorney that i recommended, who will nuke her stbx... he is ruthless, but effective.

i am somewhat riddled with guilt about what her stbx will be facing, as well as concerns that i do not repeat the sins of my past, since she is still married.

my question is for you wonderful women out there... how do i retain a freindship with her without it becoming an affair, or dampening it so much that i lose her altogether?

thanks for any advice... nice to see you all again!

regards,
dog.