First let me say thank you for your concern, and your wish of luck is appreciated. Unfortunately its the fathers like the one that you mentioned and thousands more like him that give myself and thousands more like me a bad name, and a rough ride through family court system. On a happier note I have a consult with a top notch probate lawyer tomorow 7/30, and she may be willing to take my case. So like I said your wish is greatly appreciated.