Situation in a nut shell..
My ex and I have enjoyed an amicable relationship since our divorce. Five years ago while we all lived in Florida she came to me and asked that I allow her to move to Houston with our son so she could finish her bachelors degree. Believing it is important that my son have two parents who have college degree's I agreed with the UNDERSTANDING that when she was done she'd move to where I live. Which is now Phoenix AZ.... During this time we've talked about her coming here and where she'd live. As far as child support has goes... we use to do it thru the state.. but for the last 4.5 years she's had access to my bank account and just withdrew her child support on a bi-weekly schedule.
She's now finished school and tells me that she's moving to Florida and there are no if's ands or buts...
I've spoke with two attorneys.. one in AZ the other in TX and both said I'd be fighting a loosing battle to try to get her to move here.... Per our agreement.. and my chances of getting physical custody of my son is next to 0% since I can't demonstrate she's a bad mother.
No wonder you see on the news where ex husbands kill their ex wives....
At this point seems the only thing I can do to cause her some pain is close my bank account and let her go thru the battle of the courts to get child support.... Unless anyone else has some additional thoughts
My ex and I have enjoyed an amicable relationship since our divorce. Five years ago while we all lived in Florida she came to me and asked that I allow her to move to Houston with our son so she could finish her bachelors degree. Believing it is important that my son have two parents who have college degree's I agreed with the UNDERSTANDING that when she was done she'd move to where I live. Which is now Phoenix AZ.... During this time we've talked about her coming here and where she'd live. As far as child support has goes... we use to do it thru the state.. but for the last 4.5 years she's had access to my bank account and just withdrew her child support on a bi-weekly schedule.
She's now finished school and tells me that she's moving to Florida and there are no if's ands or buts...
I've spoke with two attorneys.. one in AZ the other in TX and both said I'd be fighting a loosing battle to try to get her to move here.... Per our agreement.. and my chances of getting physical custody of my son is next to 0% since I can't demonstrate she's a bad mother.
No wonder you see on the news where ex husbands kill their ex wives....
At this point seems the only thing I can do to cause her some pain is close my bank account and let her go thru the battle of the courts to get child support.... Unless anyone else has some additional thoughts