Hi all!!
I am new here. I have spent the last few HOURS checking this site out. Oh my goodness...what a wealth of info there is!!!! I wish I new about this site several years ago!
I am a step mom to a wonderful now 17 yr old. My hubby and I have been married since he was 4. To make a long story short....BM has caused numerous problems over the years. But that is nothing new.
The thing I am upset about is that about 4 years ago, she started having a "cc" sent to her on EVERY email my hubby's son sent to him. He is 17 now and she still does it. I think it is ridiculous to have one sent to her. Hubby and his son need to have a way of communicating that is private. I know she also listens when they are on the phone.
I know she is doing this so she can see what they are saying but I feel it is violating their privacy and their lines of communication. How do we stop this?? His son does whatever his mother says. I am not saying that he is to defy her, but enough is enough!!
What can we do??
Thanks in advance!!
TexasPippy
I am new here. I have spent the last few HOURS checking this site out. Oh my goodness...what a wealth of info there is!!!! I wish I new about this site several years ago!
I am a step mom to a wonderful now 17 yr old. My hubby and I have been married since he was 4. To make a long story short....BM has caused numerous problems over the years. But that is nothing new.
The thing I am upset about is that about 4 years ago, she started having a "cc" sent to her on EVERY email my hubby's son sent to him. He is 17 now and she still does it. I think it is ridiculous to have one sent to her. Hubby and his son need to have a way of communicating that is private. I know she also listens when they are on the phone.
I know she is doing this so she can see what they are saying but I feel it is violating their privacy and their lines of communication. How do we stop this?? His son does whatever his mother says. I am not saying that he is to defy her, but enough is enough!!
What can we do??
Thanks in advance!!
TexasPippy