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She does think the world revolves around her. She has stated before that she is "damn near perfect." That is what the councilor is going to testify to. That she believes that anything she does is justified and right. Her mother and father, who now live in my house, have reinforced this idea.

The attorneys concern comes from the fact that the Judge we pulled has a reputation for making automatic temp rulings in favor of the mother with standard visitation for the father. If we are heard we are confident we will prevail. I was told it would take 3 -5 business days to follow-up on the policereport with charges. I was going to call the police this afternoon to get an update.

I am pulling out all the stops for the temp. hearing. I have the marriage councillor showing up to give his assesment as well as the doctor I went to after the attack. We are trying to get the police as witnesses but they, as standard procedure, do not give testimony without a judges supoena. If we are heard we are going to plead our whole case at this hearing. It is my hope that, and I believe it's the case, that she is going to show up with just her testimony. We hope to blindside her and her attorney with an avalanche of facts.

I'm just so anxious that I want to get all the help I can to ensure I'm not overlooking something that could turn things in my favour. I really do appriciate the help and advice I've been getting it's been extremely helpful.

Thanks for all the suggestions, I hope some of the details below help:

I filed a policereport under Domestic Violence against both her parents. It is supposed to have automatic charges filed. I also filed for a protective order Pro Se on behalf of myself and the kids against them.

The hearing is for temporary orders including custody. I filed an afidavit detailing the assault as part of my petition. I have a TRO but it does not give me access, just prevents her from taking off with them, though I don't know where the boys are right now.

The boys had been living with her and I had them alternating weekends and every Monday. In addition, I would pick them up everyday from school and take them to her in the evening, after she got home. She wanted primary of both the boys and for me to just trust her to let me see them outside of what the court would order. I wanted some form of gaurantee in the decree, like first right of refusal, but she would not agree.

She is extremely spoiled and expected me to give her what she wanted because she wanted it. When I told her I would fight for primary she and her family showed up at my apartment 10 mins. later.

I know that her goal is to hurt me as much as possible because I'm not giving into her. She even said that the kids were her only weapon against me. I'm looking for anything else that I can do to help me see my boys more than the standard visitation.

Thanks for the information. I should have clarified that there has not been a custody order yet, which iscomplicating some things.

Last week my wifes family assaulted me while she took the kids away. Since then she has refused to let me see or talk to them. She is also keeping them out of school. All of this was done because I wouldn't agree to her settlement terms.

We have a temporary order hearing on the 26th but my attorney isn't certain the judge will hear the evidence or that he will rule against the mother very easily. I'm looking for some group or person in S.E. Texas that could help me at the hearing or provide some information that I can use. Anything at all would be appriciated.