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I have been married for 5 years the end of nov. My husband has two boys from before me they live with there mother. I have a 5 year old, that is not my husbands but he has been there for him from day one. He is the only dad that my son knows. My sons father lives out of state and has not seen him from the time her was 2 months old. Me and my husband have two girls toghter 3 and 2. My husband left us. He was the one working while I went to school full time for my RN. He will not tell me were he is living. So family court told me i can not do anything due to them not being able to serve him. I have 6 weeks left my classes i am takeing now end. I can not make what i need to support my childern while i am in school full time too. everyone i call that i think could help me tell me to i know were he is living they can not do anything. I live in NY. My sister gave me my rent money today to help me but she can not keep doing that. oh he also took the 1800.00 that was in are checking account so i have 1300.00 in bounced checks out there now too. That I am the only one stuck with the checking account was in just my name but he had an ATM card. My 3 year old cried for over a hour because she did not want to go to bed to daddy came home. I just held her to she finally fell asleep. This is so unfair to them. I have no idea how to pay the bills that bounced now. family court does not want to help because i do not know were he is. I filed for a temp coustody so he could not take the 3 year old for head start, or try to come back when i am at school and take them from the sitter. Family court told me to they talk to him they will not grant it to me. So he can come at anytime and take the girls, how is that fair. his friends thatr i called to try to get were he is living they will not tell me but they said he is drinking, he has not had a drink in over 3 years now so that scares me very much he gets nuts when he is drinking. What do i do no one wants to help me?