so, i'm planning to take my son to disney. In our court order it states that each party must give a 60 day notice. I gave her the notice, and she denied my request. The reason being is because it states, that you must try to take your vacations in the months of June, july, and august. But the court order is already modified for when my son is older and in school. He's only 16 months, and there is no way that this vacation would interfer for school, since he does not attend.
Now when she asked for her vacations(which for some reason you really can't deny them), she got her way, and I was only able to see my son for 5 hours in one month! She took vacation weeks, during my visitation weeks. I tried to get a court date before christmas, because I'll be taking my son right after christmas. I'm following the court order, in everything it pertains to thematter of her having him on New Years Day, by 12noon. But she denied my request. And now I don't know what to do, or how to get my son. The police department around my way, don't show any favor for male parents. Just like the rest of new jersey system. They all favor for the female, and act like the father want nothing to do with there child. And it just seems like she tries to get at me threw my son. You can tell she shows no attention to my son, due to my son crying when leaving me, and going to her. I didn't see my son for the first 5 months of his life, and his first word was still dada. Tell me how that happens, considering his had a lot more time with her. And it's funny how I end up getting phone calls, and there from my son, using her cell phone.
So, if anyone has had this problem before, or know a way of getting my vacation approved, something in this nature, please let me know!! Please email me at yahoo, eightball08_84. Or just post it here, I just really need some help!!!
Now when she asked for her vacations(which for some reason you really can't deny them), she got her way, and I was only able to see my son for 5 hours in one month! She took vacation weeks, during my visitation weeks. I tried to get a court date before christmas, because I'll be taking my son right after christmas. I'm following the court order, in everything it pertains to thematter of her having him on New Years Day, by 12noon. But she denied my request. And now I don't know what to do, or how to get my son. The police department around my way, don't show any favor for male parents. Just like the rest of new jersey system. They all favor for the female, and act like the father want nothing to do with there child. And it just seems like she tries to get at me threw my son. You can tell she shows no attention to my son, due to my son crying when leaving me, and going to her. I didn't see my son for the first 5 months of his life, and his first word was still dada. Tell me how that happens, considering his had a lot more time with her. And it's funny how I end up getting phone calls, and there from my son, using her cell phone.
So, if anyone has had this problem before, or know a way of getting my vacation approved, something in this nature, please let me know!! Please email me at yahoo, eightball08_84. Or just post it here, I just really need some help!!!