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SORRY I AM AT WORK AND MY SYSTEM REQUIRES ME TO TYPE IN ALL CAPS.  :-)  I KNOW THE WEBSITE YOU POINTED OUT AND YES, THAT IS THE VISITATION SCHEDULE THAT HE HAS.  WE ARE ACTUALLY GOING TO COURT FOR JOINT CUSTODY IN FEBRUARY AND I GUESS THIS IS ONE OF THE MANY THINGS THAT WE WILL BRING UP.  EVENTUALLY AND HOPEFULLY THE GIRLS WILL GET OLDER AND WANT TO LIVE WITH US.  WE ARE DEFINATELY MORE STABLE PEOPLE WHO CAN PROVIDE A LOT MORE FOR THEM.   QUICK QUESTION...DO YOU THINK THAT HAVING A CONVICTED FELON LIVING WITH HER (HIS EX) WILL MAKE HER LOOK BAD IN COURT?  HER ROOM MATE WAS ALSO ARRESTED IN CITY HALL A FEW WEEKS AGO!  RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME BECAUSE THAT IS WHERE I WORK.  SHE ALSO HAS HAD A STRIPPER AND SEVERAL DIFFERENT MEN LIVE WITH HER.  SHE IS CONSTANTLY GOING OUT DRINKING AND WHO KNOWS WHO IS WATCHING THOSE LITTLE GIRLS.  ALSO, DO YOU KNOW IF A COURT WILL LOOK AT HER UTILITY RECORD TO SEE HOW MANY TIMES HER UTILITIES HAVE BEEN TURNED OFF FOR NON PAYMENT?  I KNOW FOR A FACT THAT THEY HAVE NOT HAVE WATER ON SEVERAL OCCASIONS THESE PAST FEW MONTHS.   THANKS FOR ANY HELP....SORRY IF I AM RAMBLING...I CHOSE TO JOIN THIS DISCUSSION BECAUSE I KNOW THIS WHOLE MESS REALLY SADDENS MY HUSBAND.  ME TOO, BUT I DON'T LIKE TO WORRY HIM....LATER

I AM THE STEPMOTHER OF TWIN GIRLS.  MY HUSBAND'S VISITATION SCHEDULE IS IN OKLAHOMA AND IT IS THE "CLEVELAND COUNTY STANDARD VISITATION SCHEDULE."  AT THE TOP OF THE SCHEDULE IT STATES THAT IT IS FOR THE NON-CUSTODIAL PARENT.  IT STATES THAT IN THE ODD YEARS, MY HUSBAND HAS THE CHILDREN FROM THE DAY OF THANKSGIVING BREAK UNTIL 6PM THAT SUNDAY.  WELL SINCE IT IS AN EVEN YEAR, DOES HIS EX GET THEM THAT WHOLE TIME?  I UNDERSTAND HER GETTING THEM FOR THANKSGIVING DAY, BUT THIS WEEKEND IS HIS VISITATION AND SHE WILL NOT LET HIM SEE THE GIRLS.  SHE HAS DONE THIS ON NUMEROUS OCCASIONS.  I FEEL LIKE SHE INTERPRETS THIS VISITATION SCHEDULE ACCORDING TO HOW SHE WANTS IT TO WORK OUT.  I MAY BE COMPLETELY WRONG, BUT I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW.  ANY HELP WOULD BE MUCH APPRECIATED.