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Thank you for your well thought out response.

As of now I do have physical custody of my son as well as use of the family home. It was a temp order but obtaining this will not be difficult considering the history and I do have one of the best divorce attorneys around my area. She got a emergency divorce through in 8 hours.

I think your opinion is interesting and a shared one by many people in my life who think she will simply go down the same path again. She is a abuser with a differant type of abuse. The question always is can she keep it together. Not one person thinks she will.

I did what I did to protect my kids from her evilness, so my son is in my for front. The thought of him getting the abuse my daughter and I have taken was to much for me. She is sweet talking me for sure as you can imagine. I do have my son in counseling, I got him in right away after the atempt and bought him a personal journal to write his thoughts in.

As for the girl I got to figure out how to slow her down, I think she is planning our wedding and all I wanted to do was date here and there fill some gaps in my busy life. I have no intentions on introducing a woman into my sons life for a long time.

Any thoughts . . . .

Married 17 years, 10 of the years my wife battles with mental issues, OCD, Personalty disorder, Depression. She never really gets better and for no reason goes off her med's. The last year was bad and my 21 year old daughter because of some mental abuse will not talk to her. We are best buddies. So in October she quits her job and goes into a mental hospital for several days and she was sucidial during that time. I decide I got to get out of this situation.

She comes home and I am prepairing to seperate/divorce. Sure enough my daughter sends a terrible email to her that she deserved, and sent her over the edge and she attempts suicide in the home. I was the only one home our 12 year old son was not home. I saved her from ODing, the police came and took her away.

While she is away she makes 2 more attempts. After several days in the hospital she says she is coming home, my 12 year old is terrified. I file a divorce, gain custody of my son and home. She gets served in the Hospital. This is the worst thing I ever have done in my life but I had to protect my son.

So she is out a week and living down the street. I have to bring my son to see her and the feelings are there and she is coming onto me and I have submitted a little.

She has a history of getting better and failing back. To complicate things I found another interest a sweet girl who doesnt deserve to be in this situation but I really like her.

I have control of the divorce and because of her history I am not concerned about custody. Does anyone think I should acept her back as she said she had a life changing experience? Or do you think I should know history will repeat itself, I may lose control of the divorce, I have a sweet girl to move onto. Plus my 21 year old wants nothing to do with her and that hurts me badly.

Obviously there are missing blanks but what do you think?