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#1
Custody Issues / Florida custody question
Dec 29, 2008, 02:55:37 PM
Long Story short (kinda).... I live in Arizona, my now X is in Florida. In 2003 years ago she took our son to FL and signed over custody of him to her mother telling the court she did not know how to reach me for my permission (this of course was a lie). X is now severing year 3 of a 7 year sentence in FL federal prison for trafficking in Meth. After many attorneys in October 2007 I was awarded custody of my son. For his benefit I agreed to allow him to complete the 2007/2008 school year in Florida and move to Arizona on July 25, 2008. Well on July 2, 2008 the grandparents filed papers in Florida saying my son was in couseling to get him ready for the move and that he would need additional time to adjust to this move. He had just been to Arizona for Christmas 2007 and spring break 2008 and both visits was VERY excited about moving to AZ to live with me, my wife and his brother and sister. My son was 7 yeasr old in March 2008.

The case was reassigned to a General Magistrate over my objections. My attorney has since removed himself from the case saying I owe him over $8,000. I have a copy of a deposition where the grandparents attorney asks what his charge is for the case and he states that he agreed to take the case for a flat $4,000 fee + filing costs. He now says that was not the agreement.

Since I am in Arizona and Florida has jurisdication I am trying to handle the case pro-sei as I can not longer afford an attorney. According to the custody arrangment from October 2007 I agreed to allow the grandparents to have visition on Thanksgiving, 1 week at Christmas (alternating years on Christmas day), spring break and summer visitation. As they filed the new custody documents just days before he was to move to Arizona I did not get to see my son at all over the summer. They refused to allow him to come to Arizona for Thanksgiving and for Christmas they said they were taking him to North Carolina and if I wanted to see him I would have to fly him to Arizona from there and then back to Florida. This would not have been a problem if they would have given me enough notice to be able to purchase a ticket with advance notice. I did not have the $870. that this would have cost so I did not get to see him for Christmas even though they had him for Christmas Day last year.

In December they were awarded $490 a month in child support. I can not afford this and have no idea how to contest it. I am supposed to be allowed 3 phone calls per week with my son (court ordered) but they do not answer the phone more than twice a month.

Can anyone offer some advice. I want to file for immediate custody of my son. If that is not possible I want to force them to provide the records of his counseling visits. I want copies of his report cards. I want them found in contempt of court for not allowing the phone calls.

Please help me.

Jayson
#2
Father's Issues / Florida Custody Questions
Dec 29, 2008, 02:44:32 PM
Long Story short (kinda).... I live in Arizona, my now X is in Florida. In 2003 years ago she took our son to FL and signed over custody of him to her mother telling the court she did not know how to reach me for my permission (this of course was a lie). X is now severing year 3 of a 7 year sentence in FL federal prison for trafficking in Meth. After many attorneys in October 2007 I was awarded custody of my son. For his benefit I agreed to allow him to complete the 2007/2008 school year in Florida and move to Arizona on July 25, 2008. Well on July 2, 2008 the grandparents filed papers in Florida saying my son was in couseling to get him ready for the move and that he would need additional time to adjust to this move. He had just been to Arizona for Christmas 2007 and spring break 2008 and both visits was VERY excited about moving to AZ to live with me, my wife and his brother and sister. My son was 7 yeasr old in March 2008.

The case was reassigned to a General Magistrate over my objections. My attorney has since removed himself from the case saying I owe him over $8,000. I have a copy of a deposition where the grandparents attorney asks what his charge is for the case and he states that he agreed to take the case for a flat $4,000 fee + filing costs. He now says that was not the agreement.

Since I am in Arizona and Florida has jurisdication I am trying to handle the case pro-sei as I can not longer afford an attorney. According to the custody arrangment from October 2007 I agreed to allow the grandparents to have visition on Thanksgiving, 1 week at Christmas (alternating years on Christmas day), spring break and summer visitation. As they filed the new custody documents just days before he was to move to Arizona I did not get to see my son at all over the summer. They refused to allow him to come to Arizona for Thanksgiving and for Christmas they said they were taking him to North Carolina and if I wanted to see him I would have to fly him to Arizona from there and then back to Florida. This would not have been a problem if they would have given me enough notice to be able to purchase a ticket with advance notice. I did not have the $870. that this would have cost so I did not get to see him for Christmas even though they had him for Christmas Day last year.

In December they were awarded $490 a month in child support. I can not afford this and have no idea how to contest it. I am supposed to be allowed 3 phone calls per week with my son (court ordered) but they do not answer the phone more than twice a month.

Can anyone offer some advice. I want to file for immediate custody of my son. If that is not possible I want to force them to provide the records of his counseling visits. I want copies of his report cards. I want them found in contempt of court for not allowing the phone calls.

Please help me.

Jayson
#3
Father's Issues / Father begging for HELP
Dec 14, 2006, 07:25:07 PM
My son was snatched almost 3 years ago by his mother (we are still married). She took him to Florida and signed over temporary custody of him to her mother. They told the court they did not know how to reach me to get my permission for this. It took me 6 months to find my son and find out what they had done. My wife is now in prison for 7 years on drug charges so I am now just battling her mother for custody of my son. I have spent close to $10,000 so far and have cleaned out my svaings. Last May I was able to find an attorney to take my case. As I live in Phoenix and my son is in Florida we are doing all of this long distance. My sttorney is has made huge progress and is getting a trial date set for February. My attorney agreed to a flat rate for my case unless it went to trial then it would be $2,000 a day for the trial. I paid his fee but am having the trouble coming up with the $2,000.  If there is anyone out there that would be willing to help me and my son I would be forever in your debt. I have sold everything of value I own, I am working 2 jobs but just can not come up with the balance. I can provide you with any documentation you would need to show I am telling the truth. My son is only 5 and doesn't understand why he can't be with daddy. We are so close and don't want to have to cancel the trial date.

Thank you,

Jayson and son