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Thanks for an advice,

Yes I already documenting it, I think someone already mention that, but witnesses, it would be hard, since whatever we do at home its only me, her and my baby.

Thanks,
Oleg

We live in Wake county. Do you think I have a better chance here ?

thanks,
Oleg

I know that I am the father and she also knows that. I signed bc and I think it counts here, in this sate at least, as I am her legal father (even if partinity test turned to be its not my child)

She agreed in the beginning that I have her something like 40%-35% of a time but in last argument I relaized she no longer want that.

Yes she want child support which she will get but probably not as much as she would like.

Thanks for reply.

As far as bouncing back and forth, it shouldnt be a problem cause we went to 2 different child sicologist and they confirmed its not a problem, its an old concept that this is a problem but recent research shows its ok, so from that point of view I think it should be ok.

Just wanted to share information I know already.
Anyway, thanks for you input.

Thanks,
Oleg

Hi,

We getting separated and we have one child together.
We are not married.

I want to get joint custody with our 7 month old daugther but she wants sole custody only.
It seems like we would have to go to court.

My questions are:
1. How and where I can find good lawyer that has experience with joint child custody cases in North Carolina?

2. How common it is in North Carolina to get joint custody?

3. May be this question not for this forum but just a thought. Why it is consider that mother gets custody? If we both her legal parents we both taken care of her equally, there is nothing that mother does that I cant do (she doesn't breastfead). Can this be consider as discrimination based on sex, since we both take care of our daugther equally?

Thanks,
Oleg